Planning To Pay For Top Surgery Taught Me To Be Good At Budgeting

I started jotting down numbers on a napkin, gesturing with my $8 beer as I explained how easy it would be, within a year, for him to pay it all off with the salary from his new job. He looked a little lost. I scoffed when he told me he didn’t know how much he spent on food in a month. At 25, I could tell him how much I spent each month on food going back almost eight years.

When he asked me how I got so good at budgeting, I told him, simply, “I’m transgender.”

~Buzzfeed, February 2019


Kudzu: The Vine That Ate Southern Literature 

In a region defined by slow pace, the fast-growing vine found a home. Kudzu has been portrayed both as a deadly invader and a friendly entrapper.

~Culture Trip, May 2018


Revisionist History

I will pick whatever story gets me what I want, what gets me the response I am looking for, the response I need. Do I need sympathy? Medical access? A job? My life becomes a negotiation of information.

I was taught the narrative I needed to have, so I procured it.

     ~Gertrude Press, September 2017


At the Protest

So she must stand her in the crowd, holding up her sign with her simple plea and making me want to cry.

~ New School Writing, March 2017


Sound Over Water

Sound travels furthest over water, so he kept his hand upon my mouth. His fingers laced tightly across my lips. Hard.

     ~The Rumpus, December 2016


Edge of the Map

I have always been fascinated by the edges of maps. Where exactly to the two ends of the earth overlap? What is just past that ocean in Narnia? Where did the elves plan on going when they left Middle Earth? My favorite comment has always been “Here there be Dragons.”

     ~Gaslight: Lambda Literary Foundation Emerging Writers Anthology, March 2015


Queer Narratives

What is a queer narrative?

A queer narrative is anything that derives from the norm.

     ~Miscellany, February 2015